'Hell Hath No Fury......'

Been a while huh... Well, you have to know that it isn't easy for me to write you know... not that i do not have the talent or inspiration, it's just that it comes at the most unexpected moments, am always caught unaware, and by the time i wanna write it down... it has sneaked out... *sigh*

Anyway... i have an issue i want to talk about, it's addressing men, concerning women.

Most men have been complaining about how hard it is to read a woman and understand her and all that (don't get too excited am not going to give you guidelines as to how to go about understanding us, No Way, LoL) this is just an advice, for men in general, whether you are in a relationship or not. It's about when a woman comes to you, complaining about a misunderstanding she had with a friend or another woman... She'll come to you to explain the situation, (usually she'll explain in her own way,so you can take her side) and then she'll go on and on about how right she is and how wrong the other woman is and YOU will be in a situation where you want to give your own opinion...

ah Men Men Men... When a woman is in such a mood, and she's angry, for your own good, don't take the other woman's side, even if she is right in that situation, you are only going to get Devilish looks from your woman, followed by many other things... 

The best thing to do here is to keep quiet, just listen to her, and nod, you can also try to calm her down, make her feel relaxed... later on, you can decide to talk to her and tell her that she wasn't right (that is if she really was at fault !!!), BUT only when she has calmed down, you do not want her to turn her wrath on you ! 'Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman Scorned' ! She may listen, she may not, but you have greater chances of her listening to you when she has calmed down, than when she is still boiling, so be wise !

well, Men, heed this little piece of advice ;)

....# # Realisation # #....

 They can't realise.....They don't realise how much they are being loved, all they think and focus on is how much they are hated by the so-called "Haters"....I think it's rather stupidity and insecurity or if it is not that, then it must be vanity that drives people to thinking that they are hated by a bunch of people....I mean, They have lives, why would they spend their time just hating on you....It's not like they are being paid to do that.... 

And i Personally would not be proud of having haters...Anyway..no one these days realise what hate can do to someone's life... I would rather pray that anyone who may have any hard feelings or hold grudges with me, either forgive me or forget me, i won't be boasting about!!! I will not want their Horrible thoughts to linger all around me.....Ewwww! No No No!! I don't look for THAT kind of trouble, trust me... You should do the same....

And one more thing....Quit messing things up and blaming witches/wizards or worse....The Devil...Pffff..Take responsibilities for your own actions, stop blaming others!! Man Up!! .....

If You know you cannot give be held responsible for the damage your wild fire causes, then why start it in the first place? 

I mean, i am definitely NOT perfect, but i try my best to live right, as much as i can, and whatever i can do to help others too.

Editor is Sleepy..She is going to Bed now..She is going to think of As many people as she can tonight...and smile..because she loves doing that...and then she might watch a few episodes of a serie, or not,and go to bed...Though i have only one reader....Goodnight... Love you....SIngle Reader!! xoxoxo

PeAcE oUt (Y)

HappYness

That Moment In Your Life Where You are Witnessing Your Bitch Bringing Her Puppies To Life, That Is Called Amazement

That Moment In Your Life When You Can't Wait To See That Special Person, That Is Called Excitement. That Moment When You Try To Be So Nice To People And None Of Them Hardly Recognise That Effort, That Is Called Disappointment.

That Moment In Your Life When You Get What You Want or You Have ALways Wanted, That Is Called HappYness.

I Wish Everyone Could Have That Moment, More Than Often, In Their Lives, Even Those Who Think They Might Not Deserve It 0_o

XoXoXoXo

La ViVa

Ma life, i live it the way i wanna live it, no one tells me what to do with  my life, i just live by the commandments of the Almighty and if you got a problem with that, then am sorry but i think u just have to trek down the road to meet Hades!

Anyway....i don't have much experience in life but i sure know my right from my left, i have learnt how to choose my friends, my words and my actions, for as you lay your bed, so you lie on it...... I try to avoid all Hypocrites, i try to be nice to those whom i think deserve my kindness.....At times, they don't return the Favour, but WtH, it don't really matter...It feels good to be there for someone when he/she needs yuh!

My life ain't Pathetic, urs neither, so stop trynna convince urself that there's something wrong with you, and that others are way better off than you, coz u aint nd they aint neither, well, the only thing that might be wrong with you is that ur thinking that way :) .....

Cheer Up Peoples.....Life is what you make of it....So...Make the right Choices!!! Mwah!